『壹』 孩子上了初中与我不亲近了,什么事都不和我说了怎么办
进入青春期后,孩子跟父母之间的沟通可能是困难的时候,一方面父母想知道孩子的内心想法,但孩子却经常回避这些问题。但这些恰恰是孩子成长过程中必然会经历的一个阶段,从孩子的角度来说,他们觉得自己已经长大,不需要父母的保护,就想拉开跟父母之间的距离,给自己一定的自由空间,然后做自己喜欢做的事情。
一周或一段时间,找一个不受干扰的固定时间和地点将问题集中起来,家长提前备课,庄重的与孩子坐在一起进行一场深入的沟通,要么不说,要说则集中起来一次说到位,做到谈话有力度有深度。家长态度严肃庄重,孩子记忆才能深刻。
『贰』 正英国《观察家报》日前报道说 美国学用英语翻译一下者阿尔菲·科恩的
《家庭作业的谜局》="The Homework Myth" ; 作者: Alfie Kohn.
阿尔菲·科恩的新书《家庭作业的谜局》一书称 <给小孩子布置家庭作业在很大程度上毫无意义。过多的家庭作业会导致儿童厌学 无助于他们提高考试成绩.>
"Giving children homework is to a large extent meaningless. Too much homework can make children weary of learning and this does not help improve their examination results." --Alfie Kohn--
(对不起,我找不到原句,只好自己翻译.) n(0_0)n
给你两段参考: Alfie Kohn--"The Homework Myth"
1. The negative effects of homework are well known.
They include children’s frustration and exhaustion, lack of time for
other activities, and possible loss of interest in learning. Many
parents lament the impact of homework on their relationship with their
children; they may also resent having to play the role of enforcer and
worry that they will be criticized either for not being involved enough
with the homework or for becoming too involved.
2. The positive effects of homework are largely mythical. In preparation for a book on
the topic, I’ve spent a lot of time sifting through the research. The
results are nothing short of stunning. For starters, there is
absolutely no evidence of any academic benefit from assigning homework
in elementary or middle school. For younger students, in fact, there
isn’t even a correlation between whether children do homework (or how much they do) and any meaningful measure of achievement. At the high school
level, the correlation is weak and tends to disappear when more
sophisticated statistical measures are applied. Meanwhile, no study has
ever substantiated the belief that homework builds character or teaches
good study habits.
『叁』 英国媒体为何称课后作业令中国家长不堪重负
12月11日报道英国《每日电讯报》网站12月9日刊登题为《中国“虎妈”反抗给家长布置严苛的家庭作业》的报道称,39岁的学生家长王(音)女士受够了帮儿子完成繁重的家庭作业。她和数以百万计有同样想法的家长一道,呼吁摆脱家庭作业。而就在几年前,这对中国“虎妈”来说还是不可想象的。
报道称,教育部门的官员已采取措施反对布置高难度的家庭作业。江苏等省份规定,学生的家庭作业不应成为家长的家庭作业,其难度也不应高于教学大纲或学生能力。
报道称,最近,王女士的日常生活有了新变化。每天下班回到家,她就立即脱掉鞋,换上睡衣,泡一杯绿茶。她决定,不让儿子学习上的烦心事影响母子关系或打乱自己工作与生活的平衡。
『肆』 他停下来。开始做家庭作业 她停止看电视新闻 这2个句子的翻译 英文
He stopped to do his homework.
She stopped watching TV.