『壹』 孩子上了初中與我不親近了,什麼事都不和我說了怎麼辦
進入青春期後,孩子跟父母之間的溝通可能是困難的時候,一方面父母想知道孩子的內心想法,但孩子卻經常迴避這些問題。但這些恰恰是孩子成長過程中必然會經歷的一個階段,從孩子的角度來說,他們覺得自己已經長大,不需要父母的保護,就想拉開跟父母之間的距離,給自己一定的自由空間,然後做自己喜歡做的事情。
一周或一段時間,找一個不受干擾的固定時間和地點將問題集中起來,家長提前備課,莊重的與孩子坐在一起進行一場深入的溝通,要麼不說,要說則集中起來一次說到位,做到談話有力度有深度。家長態度嚴肅莊重,孩子記憶才能深刻。
『貳』 正英國《觀察家報》日前報道說 美國學用英語翻譯一下者阿爾菲·科恩的
《家庭作業的謎局》="The Homework Myth" ; 作者: Alfie Kohn.
阿爾菲·科恩的新書《家庭作業的謎局》一書稱 <給小孩子布置家庭作業在很大程度上毫無意義。過多的家庭作業會導致兒童厭學 無助於他們提高考試成績.>
"Giving children homework is to a large extent meaningless. Too much homework can make children weary of learning and this does not help improve their examination results." --Alfie Kohn--
(對不起,我找不到原句,只好自己翻譯.) n(0_0)n
給你兩段參考: Alfie Kohn--"The Homework Myth"
1. The negative effects of homework are well known.
They include children』s frustration and exhaustion, lack of time for
other activities, and possible loss of interest in learning. Many
parents lament the impact of homework on their relationship with their
children; they may also resent having to play the role of enforcer and
worry that they will be criticized either for not being involved enough
with the homework or for becoming too involved.
2. The positive effects of homework are largely mythical. In preparation for a book on
the topic, I』ve spent a lot of time sifting through the research. The
results are nothing short of stunning. For starters, there is
absolutely no evidence of any academic benefit from assigning homework
in elementary or middle school. For younger students, in fact, there
isn』t even a correlation between whether children do homework (or how much they do) and any meaningful measure of achievement. At the high school
level, the correlation is weak and tends to disappear when more
sophisticated statistical measures are applied. Meanwhile, no study has
ever substantiated the belief that homework builds character or teaches
good study habits.
『叄』 英國媒體為何稱課後作業令中國家長不堪重負
12月11日報道英國《每日電訊報》網站12月9日刊登題為《中國「虎媽」反抗給家長布置嚴苛的家庭作業》的報道稱,39歲的學生家長王(音)女士受夠了幫兒子完成繁重的家庭作業。她和數以百萬計有同樣想法的家長一道,呼籲擺脫家庭作業。而就在幾年前,這對中國「虎媽」來說還是不可想像的。
報道稱,教育部門的官員已採取措施反對布置高難度的家庭作業。江蘇等省份規定,學生的家庭作業不應成為家長的家庭作業,其難度也不應高於教學大綱或學生能力。
報道稱,最近,王女士的日常生活有了新變化。每天下班回到家,她就立即脫掉鞋,換上睡衣,泡一杯綠茶。她決定,不讓兒子學習上的煩心事影響母子關系或打亂自己工作與生活的平衡。
『肆』 他停下來。開始做家庭作業 她停止看電視新聞 這2個句子的翻譯 英文
He stopped to do his homework.
She stopped watching TV.